Upcoming Events


IFS, sexuality and gender - Key Concepts

Friday 10th Oct 2pm-3.30pm UK time

How to apply non-normative points of view of sex and gender with your clients. For example, using pronouns correctly, and understanding what misgendering is and its impact on LGBTQIA+ systems.

How to open up a safe space for a more expansive view of LGBTQIA+ identities in your therapy room

To identify the biases that your parts might hold around LGBTQIA+ identities, and to begin moving beyond binary ways of thinking.

How to explore your system with regards to gender and sexuality.


Steps towards IFS neuro-affirming practice

3-hour Zoom workshop with Jude Carn with access to recordings

Thursday 16th October 5pm-8pm UK time


Open IFS Consultation 30th Oct 2025

A space to present, ask questions or simply listen to IFS Clinical Consultations on working with neurodivergent clients

Thursday 30th Oct 2025 5-7pm (UK time)


IFS, Sexuality & Gender - Trauma, Shame and Intersectionality

Friday 7th Nov 2pm-3.30pm UK time

In this lecture, Alessio and Anna-Thomas present five frameworks to understand how trauma, shame and intersectionality impact LGBTQIA+ systems from an Internal Family Systems perspective.

You will learn about major theoretical lenses used to understand how people with marginalised identities, like the ones that compose the LGBTQIA+ umbrella, are burdened by dominant culture. This results in constant higher levels of stress and shame within the system from a very young age.

It is important, when working with LGBTQIA+ systems, to be aware of the specific difficulities and burdens that their system may carry and how they present in the therapy room.


Open IFS Consultation 27th Nov 2025

A space to present, ask questions or simply listen to IFS Clinical Consultations on working with neurodivergent clients

Thursday 27th Nov 2025 5-7pm (UK time)


IFS, Sexuality & Gender - Disenfranchised Grief and Legacy Work

Friday 28th Nov 2pm-3.30pm UK time

n this lecture, Alessio and Anna-Thomas present two key aspects of working clinically with LGBTQIA+ systems affected by trauma and burdens described in the previous lecture.

You will learn about disenfranchised grief, how it impacts parts of LGBTQIA+ systems, and how to support the unburdening process with IFS. We will also explore the experiences of epistemic violence that is specific to LGBTQIA+ individuals.

Additionally, we will give our unique view of legacy work and how specific attention needs to be given to minimise access fatigue experienced by LGBTQIA+ individuals, whose ancestors are likely to carry homophobic and genderphobic burdens.